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Why the Best Leaders Ask More Questions

  • Liane McGrath
  • Nov 7, 2024
  • 1 min read

The best leaders ask far more questions than they tell. Research into communication has found that effective communicators ask around twenty times more questions than ineffective ones. The shift from telling to asking is one of the highest-leverage moves a leader can make.


Why asking beats telling


Questions invite insight, surface blind spots, and signal that people's input matters. They build a culture of collaboration and shared ownership — where the team thinks, rather than waits to be told.


Putting it into practice


  • Before giving an answer, ask a genuine question first

  • Notice your ratio of questions to statements in a meeting

  • Listen to the answer rather than preparing your reply

  • Treat questions as a tool, not just curiosity


So next time you're about to tell someone something, take a breath and ask instead. The strongest thing a leader can do is often to ask a better question.


Frequently asked questions


Do effective leaders really ask more questions?


Research on communication found effective communicators ask around twenty times more questions than ineffective ones — asking builds trust, insight and shared ownership.


How does asking more questions help a team?


Questions invite people to think and contribute, surface blind spots, and shift ownership to the team rather than concentrating it in the leader.

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